My Mother used to have a way with words – with her direct way of speaking she certainly didn’t sound like the most sympathetic person – I suppose a life full of hard knocks does that to you.
A well intended – “Don’t sit there looking miserable and feeling sorry for yourself’ get up and do something about it” was never well received by me. I wanted her to undertand and give me more than what equated to ‘sort yourself out ‘cose no-one else can do it for you.
These days we seem to be more aware of emotions and feelings but I wonder if she’d put it this way – ‘Think positively – not negatively’
(Based on the idea the mind can affect the body, positive thinking is a way of keeping the mind and body healthy.)
would I have remembered the ‘lesson’ I think she was trying to teach me?
For some reason her words kept popping into my mind this week and as much as I didn’t enjoy hearing them they did prompt me to get off my b… and sort myself out lol
Most of it seems to stem from this irrational fear I have of these cataract operations – yes the dates have been set, I will be having them replaced over the next two months. I have no idea why I’m so uptight considering most of my ‘working life’ was spent in the company of doctors, nurses and patients but I’m sure I will survive – both mentally and physically.
A mess in the garage (a never ending problem in our house) meant suit cases had to stay on the deck after we got home in December – Stop complaining, you made the mess, get out there and tidy it up.
Result – discovered enough wool/yarn out there to knit again this year for the KOGO project run in conjunction with the Save the Children Born to Knit project.
Still have sore itchy eyes – eye drops from the eye specialist helped as well as staying away from the computer. Reason for no posts this week – sorry
Result – worked out how to use a lot of the wool/yarn using older favourite well used simple knitting patterns that I can knit easily and not worry about having to look at the instructions.
Back and legs still playing up – had several painful days on the cruise and also after we returned. Decided to replace the mattress, it may not be the main reason for our aches and pains but was not helping much either as it really was becoming too soft. The Golfer and I went shopping and agreed at once on the mattress found at the first store we visited.
Result – an early delivery was a surprise (thought we’d have to wait a while) and coincidence or not we both feel much better in the morning – seems firm was the way to go. Had to buy a quilted protector as it really felt ‘hard’ the first night compared to the lush pillow top we had previously. Might have to get a wool underlay for the winter, last night was quite cool and it felt ‘cold’. I’m sure we’ll get used to it!
So I just have to wonder – am I taking my Mother’s tough love advice – or am I thinking positively and not negatively?? Here’s to looking on the bright side 🙂
Oh and thanks for all your comments and emails over the month – now I have this off my chest I will keep up to date reading and answering them (and all your blogs as well)